backspin
09-30-2002, 11:00 PM
I'm feeling very unappreciated tonight. I just need to rant for a minute.
I've been coaching for about 4 years. I started out just helping w/ a group dance class once a week. Then the main teacher couldn't do it anymore, so they asked if I would take it over. After teaching the group class for awhile, people started asking me for private lessons. So I started taking on private students. Now I have 6 private students & I teach 2 group classes a week.
Since ice time around here is very limited, I have virtually given up all my practice time to make time for my students to have lessons. I try to skate 1/2 hour on one public session a week & I get 1/2 hour on one other session when I only have one lesson to teach.
Today, I drove an hour each way & paid $69.00 to take a one hour lesson w/ my ice dance coach (whom I haven't had a lesson with in a few years due to lack of money). It was a "coaching lesson", to go through partnering of some of the lower level dances my students are working on, & focus on some basic things to give me more ideas to further my students' skating. I can't tell you how I miss skating "for real", & how I wanted to bag the basics and skate with him! But I stuck to what I needed to do in my capacity as a coach.
Then, I had to teach tonight on a session that's 1 1/2 hours. I had three students on it before, but one just switched to a different day. Hooray, another 1/2 hour I get to skate! I've been skating the last part of the session--BUT, since my students are often a few minutes late & also like to have a few minutes to warm up before their lessons, that time was getting to be more like 15 minutes. So today I told one of my students that I was going to skate the 1st 1/2 hour, then take them through their lessons, hence they get their warmup & I don't lose my precious skating time. Everyone's happy, right? NO!
Apparently, I'm being very selfish to take that first 1/2 hour. They are the "clients", they are paying for the ice and my time, therefore they should get priority of earlier lessons. (this is because they don't want to stay for the full 1 1/2 hour session) (I don't have to pay to skate on that 1/2 hour because I'm coaching on the rest of it)
We worked it out so that we will rotate whose lesson comes first & I won't always skate the first part, & they've been warned that they must be on time & be willing to start their lesson right when the session starts. But I just feel very unappreciated because of that comment.
I feel like I've given up so much to teach, and I really go to great lengths to try to be the best coach I can be. I love to coach. It brings me a lot of happiness. But I just feel like I am so taken for granted, & that all the things I do just don't matter to them. :( :( :(
I've been coaching for about 4 years. I started out just helping w/ a group dance class once a week. Then the main teacher couldn't do it anymore, so they asked if I would take it over. After teaching the group class for awhile, people started asking me for private lessons. So I started taking on private students. Now I have 6 private students & I teach 2 group classes a week.
Since ice time around here is very limited, I have virtually given up all my practice time to make time for my students to have lessons. I try to skate 1/2 hour on one public session a week & I get 1/2 hour on one other session when I only have one lesson to teach.
Today, I drove an hour each way & paid $69.00 to take a one hour lesson w/ my ice dance coach (whom I haven't had a lesson with in a few years due to lack of money). It was a "coaching lesson", to go through partnering of some of the lower level dances my students are working on, & focus on some basic things to give me more ideas to further my students' skating. I can't tell you how I miss skating "for real", & how I wanted to bag the basics and skate with him! But I stuck to what I needed to do in my capacity as a coach.
Then, I had to teach tonight on a session that's 1 1/2 hours. I had three students on it before, but one just switched to a different day. Hooray, another 1/2 hour I get to skate! I've been skating the last part of the session--BUT, since my students are often a few minutes late & also like to have a few minutes to warm up before their lessons, that time was getting to be more like 15 minutes. So today I told one of my students that I was going to skate the 1st 1/2 hour, then take them through their lessons, hence they get their warmup & I don't lose my precious skating time. Everyone's happy, right? NO!
Apparently, I'm being very selfish to take that first 1/2 hour. They are the "clients", they are paying for the ice and my time, therefore they should get priority of earlier lessons. (this is because they don't want to stay for the full 1 1/2 hour session) (I don't have to pay to skate on that 1/2 hour because I'm coaching on the rest of it)
We worked it out so that we will rotate whose lesson comes first & I won't always skate the first part, & they've been warned that they must be on time & be willing to start their lesson right when the session starts. But I just feel very unappreciated because of that comment.
I feel like I've given up so much to teach, and I really go to great lengths to try to be the best coach I can be. I love to coach. It brings me a lot of happiness. But I just feel like I am so taken for granted, & that all the things I do just don't matter to them. :( :( :(