ibreakhearts66
11-15-2007, 11:13 PM
so i noticed my pet peeve's thread got lots of responses, so i thought i'd start one for specific rants. i'll start :D :D :D
bahhhhhhh. people annoy me.
ok, so last saturday, i was at the rink for public session bc i had been there earlier making costumes and decided to skate with friends. note, this is a saturday session right after skating school, so its crowded. well, one girl decides that a crowded session is an appropriate time to do lutzes (from the backcrossover take-off mind you, not the choctaw-step entrance) and, over course, pays no attention to where she is placing her backcrossovers. well, i am skating in the PROPER direction along with everyone else, and she crashes right into me. no apology, nothing. luckily i am very steady on my skates and she wasn't going too fast, but she could have really hurt me! she was a taller, curvier girl and really could have knocked someone over.
this same girl, another saturday, did a flying camel inches from my friend's face. my friend stood there and said "umm..are you even gonna say anything?" figuring the girl who almost chopped off her nose would apologize or something. instead, she gets a very snobby "yeah, next time, move."
AHHHHH!!!!
ok, another rant. as i said on the other thead, i have a jumping spot. it is the only spot i am willing to jump in at this specific rink. all of the times i have kicked myself or fallen really hard it has been on the other side, so i just don't jump there anymore. people LOVE to hang out in my jumping spot! its not like its a particularly random spot. in fact, it is one of the jumping corners. well, one coach loves to teach spins IN THAT CORNER. other people just kinda stand there and im just like "AHHH I WANT TO JUMP!!!!!" i never say anything of course, because God forbid I ask anyone to do anything for me, but sh** man! some day i may very very politely ask the coach if she could maybe coach a few feet to the left and explain that i am neurotic.
ok so another thing that was REALLY been pissing me off. so, as you all probably know by the number of times i have complained about it, i struggle with my axel. i just play mind games and pop them. also, you guys know that my landing leg is shot, i've had a knee and ankle surgery on that side and need hip surgery. well, one girl at the rink still finds it appropriate to make a comment every time i fall. i was doing an axel (and actually rotated it!) and fell, and she goes "what was that?" i told her it was an axel. she goes "i thought you always landed axels." BAH! i actually sort of stood up for myself and said "look, i have a bad hip, knee, and ankle, and i really don't need you pointing out every time i fall." i mean, i think she just hasn't learned to censor her thoughts yet, as she has been known to go up to people and say "wow, that spin really traveled" but still!
ok this final rant is more of a personal one, but maaaan it still eats at me.
so i struggled with anorexia really badly. i was hospitalized twice for extended periods of time (as in months) and nearly died quite a few times. this was pretty common knowledge at the rink. its fairly obvious that a girl is sick when she loses 30 pounds off an already underweight frame. well, one woman, lets call her J, made, and continues to make, incredibly inappropriate comments. i believe i have spoken about this before, but once is not enough!
first comment. i come out of the bathroom after my second hospitalization (and still only weigh about 100 pounds at 5'5) and she stops me to say "you have a nice body. you have a nice, flat stomach, and shapely thighs." ok, i realize that to the average person this is a compliment, but all i heard was "SHAPELY THIGHS" which, of course, equals THUNDER THIGHS. well, a week or two later, she made another comment and said "you know, you really aren't that skinny." at that point, i mentioned it to my coach, and found out she had been telling my coach she didn't think i was that skinny either! well, i talked to her about it and said (very nicely, just like a good little anorexic) "J, could you please not make comments about my body? Its just that its a really sensitive subject right now." You know what she says? "I can talk about whatever I like." :!: :!: :!: :!: :!:
but oh no, she can't stop with my body. so she used to sponsor a little 10 year old (started sponsoring her when she was 5). well, she put this girl on a diet when she was 5 to lose about 7 pounds (which is like 15 percent of a 5 year old's body weight). well, she was busy complaining about this girl's body to her coach (also my coach). one girl told her that sometimes girls just grow out before they grow up, but that she'll grow into her body. J says "speak from your own experience, I was never like that." so, our coach tries to reassure her too. well, J then says to the coach "yeah, well you ahve a tendency to be fat anyways."
there are so many more stories like this about her, but ugh, i have to stop somewhere
bahhhhhhh. people annoy me.
ok, so last saturday, i was at the rink for public session bc i had been there earlier making costumes and decided to skate with friends. note, this is a saturday session right after skating school, so its crowded. well, one girl decides that a crowded session is an appropriate time to do lutzes (from the backcrossover take-off mind you, not the choctaw-step entrance) and, over course, pays no attention to where she is placing her backcrossovers. well, i am skating in the PROPER direction along with everyone else, and she crashes right into me. no apology, nothing. luckily i am very steady on my skates and she wasn't going too fast, but she could have really hurt me! she was a taller, curvier girl and really could have knocked someone over.
this same girl, another saturday, did a flying camel inches from my friend's face. my friend stood there and said "umm..are you even gonna say anything?" figuring the girl who almost chopped off her nose would apologize or something. instead, she gets a very snobby "yeah, next time, move."
AHHHHH!!!!
ok, another rant. as i said on the other thead, i have a jumping spot. it is the only spot i am willing to jump in at this specific rink. all of the times i have kicked myself or fallen really hard it has been on the other side, so i just don't jump there anymore. people LOVE to hang out in my jumping spot! its not like its a particularly random spot. in fact, it is one of the jumping corners. well, one coach loves to teach spins IN THAT CORNER. other people just kinda stand there and im just like "AHHH I WANT TO JUMP!!!!!" i never say anything of course, because God forbid I ask anyone to do anything for me, but sh** man! some day i may very very politely ask the coach if she could maybe coach a few feet to the left and explain that i am neurotic.
ok so another thing that was REALLY been pissing me off. so, as you all probably know by the number of times i have complained about it, i struggle with my axel. i just play mind games and pop them. also, you guys know that my landing leg is shot, i've had a knee and ankle surgery on that side and need hip surgery. well, one girl at the rink still finds it appropriate to make a comment every time i fall. i was doing an axel (and actually rotated it!) and fell, and she goes "what was that?" i told her it was an axel. she goes "i thought you always landed axels." BAH! i actually sort of stood up for myself and said "look, i have a bad hip, knee, and ankle, and i really don't need you pointing out every time i fall." i mean, i think she just hasn't learned to censor her thoughts yet, as she has been known to go up to people and say "wow, that spin really traveled" but still!
ok this final rant is more of a personal one, but maaaan it still eats at me.
so i struggled with anorexia really badly. i was hospitalized twice for extended periods of time (as in months) and nearly died quite a few times. this was pretty common knowledge at the rink. its fairly obvious that a girl is sick when she loses 30 pounds off an already underweight frame. well, one woman, lets call her J, made, and continues to make, incredibly inappropriate comments. i believe i have spoken about this before, but once is not enough!
first comment. i come out of the bathroom after my second hospitalization (and still only weigh about 100 pounds at 5'5) and she stops me to say "you have a nice body. you have a nice, flat stomach, and shapely thighs." ok, i realize that to the average person this is a compliment, but all i heard was "SHAPELY THIGHS" which, of course, equals THUNDER THIGHS. well, a week or two later, she made another comment and said "you know, you really aren't that skinny." at that point, i mentioned it to my coach, and found out she had been telling my coach she didn't think i was that skinny either! well, i talked to her about it and said (very nicely, just like a good little anorexic) "J, could you please not make comments about my body? Its just that its a really sensitive subject right now." You know what she says? "I can talk about whatever I like." :!: :!: :!: :!: :!:
but oh no, she can't stop with my body. so she used to sponsor a little 10 year old (started sponsoring her when she was 5). well, she put this girl on a diet when she was 5 to lose about 7 pounds (which is like 15 percent of a 5 year old's body weight). well, she was busy complaining about this girl's body to her coach (also my coach). one girl told her that sometimes girls just grow out before they grow up, but that she'll grow into her body. J says "speak from your own experience, I was never like that." so, our coach tries to reassure her too. well, J then says to the coach "yeah, well you ahve a tendency to be fat anyways."
there are so many more stories like this about her, but ugh, i have to stop somewhere