nemo
07-28-2007, 09:07 PM
I have no idea where to turn....
our daughter has had a hell of a last couple years....including a dislocated knee. this past spring ...after that happened...she decided that her goal was to pass her prenovice singles test for sectionals this year....(it had been a goal also the year before...but the coaches for whatever reason weren't taking it seriously)...
we are having major jump issues....she passed her jr silver fs three weeks after her dislocation with flying colors....[we didn't want her to go back but with a brace and the fact that the dislocation went back into place and some physio, the doc said she could...anyway.....]
she was having some trouble in spring with the 2 flip, 2 lutz....but went to a doug leigh seminar with tebby and barkell...and the second day of the seminar was landing all doubles clean as clean can be...consistently...she came back to her rink full of confidence...continued to land 2 lutz, sometimes the flip. started summer school 1st week was landing her 2 lutz and a 2 flip 2 toe. then.....coach told her to change the technique (from the seminar) and wanted her to do it " his way"....
she can't remember the seminar technique and more or less has lost both those jumps....3 of every 20 flips get landed...the lutz is now worse than it was 6 months ago....
she discovered halfway into summer that the choreographer wasnt' going to work with her this summer...we approached the coach...they said well she will be need to arrange it...not done...
last season...music at provincial level she competed with all season was a half minute too short....we as parents were the ones to discover it a week before comp registration....their excuse was didn't notice...
now a week before the prenovice test forms due, the coach comes to us telling us her program won't pass as it now is, and that without her 2 flip or 2 lutz...she can't compete in prenovice...[but yet he passed another child in the test the month before without the 2 lutz]
he suggests staying starskate another year and see if she's ready. seems to be the story of her life with this coach...always something else or some other excuse every year about something.
our child feels betrayed as she worked really hard....he apparently asked her recently how come she can't skate like other girls on that ice who are younger....now she is really upset and self confidence out the window....
we are at a loss.....as to what to do...he made us handle it by telling us to ask her to consider not doing the test, and that he didn't want her to think she couldn't do that level but it was a big goal and thinks she should do starskate again. now that we have wasted summer, wasted time and money, and lots of other things..and she worked hard through her pain, made her sacrifices etc...she is furious and feels led down the path yet again this year.
whenever we say what we feel to coach, he penalizes her....like 3 years ago took away her 2 sal saying she needed to pass some test for them before she could do it...though she was landing it clean...it took a year for her to get the damn thing back after that....
now she constantly overrotates all her 2 sal, 2 loop, 2 toe, and almost landed her 2 axel...but they stoppped her...
problem is, no good freeskate coaches in our area....what do we do...we know she can do it...we saw her do it at seminar and right after...what is different about leigh technique that it works for her....but that no one else seems to be able to do for her?
she's pretty upset about these two jumps and we don't want to be nightmare skating parents...but what do you do when trust has been breached too many times?????
help!!!!
our daughter has had a hell of a last couple years....including a dislocated knee. this past spring ...after that happened...she decided that her goal was to pass her prenovice singles test for sectionals this year....(it had been a goal also the year before...but the coaches for whatever reason weren't taking it seriously)...
we are having major jump issues....she passed her jr silver fs three weeks after her dislocation with flying colors....[we didn't want her to go back but with a brace and the fact that the dislocation went back into place and some physio, the doc said she could...anyway.....]
she was having some trouble in spring with the 2 flip, 2 lutz....but went to a doug leigh seminar with tebby and barkell...and the second day of the seminar was landing all doubles clean as clean can be...consistently...she came back to her rink full of confidence...continued to land 2 lutz, sometimes the flip. started summer school 1st week was landing her 2 lutz and a 2 flip 2 toe. then.....coach told her to change the technique (from the seminar) and wanted her to do it " his way"....
she can't remember the seminar technique and more or less has lost both those jumps....3 of every 20 flips get landed...the lutz is now worse than it was 6 months ago....
she discovered halfway into summer that the choreographer wasnt' going to work with her this summer...we approached the coach...they said well she will be need to arrange it...not done...
last season...music at provincial level she competed with all season was a half minute too short....we as parents were the ones to discover it a week before comp registration....their excuse was didn't notice...
now a week before the prenovice test forms due, the coach comes to us telling us her program won't pass as it now is, and that without her 2 flip or 2 lutz...she can't compete in prenovice...[but yet he passed another child in the test the month before without the 2 lutz]
he suggests staying starskate another year and see if she's ready. seems to be the story of her life with this coach...always something else or some other excuse every year about something.
our child feels betrayed as she worked really hard....he apparently asked her recently how come she can't skate like other girls on that ice who are younger....now she is really upset and self confidence out the window....
we are at a loss.....as to what to do...he made us handle it by telling us to ask her to consider not doing the test, and that he didn't want her to think she couldn't do that level but it was a big goal and thinks she should do starskate again. now that we have wasted summer, wasted time and money, and lots of other things..and she worked hard through her pain, made her sacrifices etc...she is furious and feels led down the path yet again this year.
whenever we say what we feel to coach, he penalizes her....like 3 years ago took away her 2 sal saying she needed to pass some test for them before she could do it...though she was landing it clean...it took a year for her to get the damn thing back after that....
now she constantly overrotates all her 2 sal, 2 loop, 2 toe, and almost landed her 2 axel...but they stoppped her...
problem is, no good freeskate coaches in our area....what do we do...we know she can do it...we saw her do it at seminar and right after...what is different about leigh technique that it works for her....but that no one else seems to be able to do for her?
she's pretty upset about these two jumps and we don't want to be nightmare skating parents...but what do you do when trust has been breached too many times?????
help!!!!